Phoenix Realm Institute

The Gap Audit

How far are you running from yourself?

A 7-minute self-assessment for high-achieving professionals who look fine on the outside — and feel depleted on the inside.

From Glenda Tan, founder of Phoenix Realm Institute.

Before you begin

How to use this

Read each statement and choose the number that best reflects how true it has been for you over the past 6 months — not how you'd like it to be, and not how it looks from the outside.

1 — Never true
2 — Rarely true
3 — Sometimes true
4 — Often true
5 — Almost always true

Answer quickly. Your first instinct is usually the honest one.

Section 1 — The Mask

The version of you the world sees — and rewards.

Section 2 — The Current

The pull you've been swimming against — and calling it ambition.

Section 3 — The Gap

The distance between what happened — and what you've let yourself understand about it.

Almost there

Where shall I send your result?

Your audit is complete. Enter your email below and I'll send you your score, your personalised reading, and a short letter from me about what it took to write this.

✓
Audit complete

Thank you. Your results are on their way.

I read every response personally. Your score and your personalised reading is on its way to your inbox now

If you don't see it, please check your spam or promotions folder.

You cannot outwork what you haven't faced. I tried for ten years.
The current is only a current while you're swimming against it.

While you wait

If any part of this audit felt like being described rather than read, that is usually the beginning of the conversation.

The Theta Collective is a Phoenix Realm community and a safe space for women to learn their own language — so that the first person they can speak honestly to is themselves.